2021.12.05 11:44 throwaway666111222ab I finally realized this dating advice last night - it applies to women & men.
I’m a 27F and have dated / talked to quite a few men in my lifetime. I’ve had 2 serious relationships that both ended terribly and catapulted me to go to therapy. I’ve been in therapy for almost 3 years on and off now and have grown so much in my confidence in relationships and what I want. Now I’m slowly entering the dating scene again and I realized something HUGE last night. People show their true colors to you in about 2 weeks.
There’s two guys I’m talking to. One was very considerate about me being sick and saying I had to cancel our date. He offered to buy me lunch to make me feel better. His small action really made me feel cared for and seen. He approached the situation in a mature way.
The other guy I’m talking to has fun conversation with me , but he completely ignored important things I was telling him and it made me feel unseen. I even hinted this to him and he just said it’s been a long day. Like ok? So you know you are lacking and already are making excuses. Last night I broke down into tears and asked myself why I was so upset. I was upset because it reminded me of my past self who settled for less and allowed people to treat me however they wanted to on their time. It reminded me of my ex who was more into his own self than making an active effort to have conversation about my wants and needs. Needless to say after this breakdown, I realized guy 2 was making me anxious and this wasn’t a healthy attachment right off the bat. If it isn’t making me feel good I need to listen to my gut and act on that feeling. While guy 1 isn’t exactly my type, he’s been actively conscious of me aka asking how I’m feeling, talking about my interests, etc.I haven’t felt at all anxious when talking to him or thinking about him. Needless to say I do not think I’m going to talk to guy 2 anymore bc it really opened my eyes to who he is.
Men and women-listen to your gut. It’s easy to ignore signs and red flags bc you like the attention and fun of dating, but in the end you already have the information laid out. Don’t continue to make excuses for people -they know how they act. There are good people out there who will treat you how you should be treated!
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2021.12.05 11:43 somnimedes VK Jhow screwed his team over, and no one else
He used a previously punished and well-known exploit that obviously sees through the map textures. Several times. If anything, BR fans should be mad at Jhow for fucking his team with exploit abuse. That's what upholding competitive integrity means.
When players get punished for competitive rulings or even get investigated in the pro LoL scene, the orgs themselves start investigating and meting out internal punishment, because the scene understands that players have the responsibility of following rules, and player violations impact the team and the org.
It boggles my mind to see blind fans just defend and defend the player that cost them advancement. Is this just a culture difference due to the young scene?
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